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But really, these calming traits can be adopted by anyone. And that's why, even though coolness can come in a variety of shapes and sizes, it is possible to identify a few traits that connect all cool people together. Reluctant swinger wife fact, these folks tend to be excellent problem solvers, and are thus able to sit down, look at the facts, and figure out solutions to stressful situations. They might make great eye contact, for example, have open body perxon, or flash a smile that gives off friendly vibes.
Ever notice how calming people hardly ever gossip?
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To see someone who has hit upon that — because it is a holy grail — makes them seem interesting. And they're passionate about them.
With the well-timed quip, or lighthearted joke, they can magically put everyone at ease. But most importantly, they make an effort to move on.
But the people who tend to relax us move at a slower pace, and therefore establish a calmer environment around them. The reason this is "cool" is because people find passion intriguing. Calm people Cool people are interesting because they're always learning something new, and thus always have something to talk about.
The most fascinating people are those who are fascinated," Dr. As Schweet says, it's "beneficial And they can certainly be calming, in their own way. Fern Kazlow tells Bustle.
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By Carolyn Steber March 16, It can be tough to pinpoint the exact qualities that make someone coolsince pretty much everyone has a different idea of what "cool" is. When people feel Hot pussy in billings. Swinging., they open up and connect with you more. And it's not to say that they don't have insecurities or anxieties, or that they don't care. Even though everyone's entitled to an off day, and moments where they don't feel so great about themselves.
When you're with them, it's almost impossible not to feel chilll relaxed, as their chill vibes wash Lookinh you.
They listen to your storiesthey make you feel seen and heard, and often, you leave the experience of feeling a little bit lighter after seeing them. Pontiac girl that has a lot to do with what they bring to the convo, too.
Instead, they make eye contact, "which immediately brings our defenses down. Perfectly timed jokes. For some, it's a leather-coat-wearing, motorcycle-riding rebel. If you'd like to give off these vibes, try working on some of the habits below, which experts say all calming people have in common.
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And there are so many benefits to be had in doing so. When someone makes eye contact with us, we feel that we are being seen, because they are really paying attention to us. First off, once you figure out how to take on a calmer energy for yourself, "you'll have more clarity and command in your life and be less likely to get easily triggered by other people's behavior or stressful situations," Kelli Lolkinga certified leadership and transition coach, dith Bustle.
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But if someone's willing to go through some self-discoveryand accept themselves for who they are, they can be cool, choll. And calming folks definitely occupy that former space. By learning more about yourself, projecting confidence, and sticking to your guns — even if what you think, or what you care about, is unpopular — you'll have that "it" factor that's hard to deny, and that'll help you stand out from the pack.
They are able to pull people into their calm, instead of Loo,ing people to pull them into their storm.
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So, how can you start to shift yourself toward this calmer direction? When you're around people who smile frequently, it's apt to have a calming effect on your mood.
These people are wildly different, and yet they're all considered cool because they project a certain "something" that makes them stand out. For others, it's the lead singer of a band, a scientist winning the Noble Prize, or just that really nice girl down the street. Susan Shumsky tells Bustle. Fake it 'til you fir it," says Gurner.